Guys is always known to be different from ladies - mentally and physically. Guys are 'simple', proved by many studies. They are unable to multitask like what ladies could do. They mean what they say, unlike ladies have many intentions behind every sentence that they say. It is a blessing that guys are simple as there are already of many complicated animals - ladies on earth. However, guys are just too insensitive. Dont u think so?

So this 'simple-minded' ex-colleague of mine, YT just pro enough to make me lost my temper due to his insensitivity.

When I was working in RP, we exchanged our contacts among ourselves. This also included the adding of our colleagues as our facebook friends. Sometimes we would just rant on facebook or share something with the other colleagues by tagging them in the post.

Two days back when I was already unemployed, one of my colleague Richard shared a video on facebook. He didnt tag anyone for that, but that stupid YT just tagged me in. Not only tag me in, he also wrote some quite offensive comments as well. At the start, I thought he was just trying to be hilarious. Yet thing started to go out of control after a few comments. I really felt offended n angry. He didnt even apologised after those comments.

Thus for the next few days, when I saw him joke n complained on facebook n whatsapp, I really felt like blocking him, unfriend him. I knew I need to talk to someone regarding this. If not I might do something crazy about it. So the first person that came to my mind was SL. She was my workplace buddy. We often chat n joke with each other. Most importantly, she was quite familiar with YT. Hence, I whatsapp-ed her.

She went to 'investigate' it n found that YT was being too 0much this time. This time round, SL became the middleman in negotiating. YT did apologised to me after a while via whatsapp but decided to ignore him. He was being too insensitive. It's time to let him have a lesson. Thus, I carried on the plan of ignoring him on whatsapp.

He sent a lot of things on whatsapp but none I replied. He was so anxious n guilty that he called me - first in his life. N me... first in my life to chup his call immediately. I was so MEAN, but at the same time I felt so good (great feeling of revenge). Bad karma...

He claimed that he was being insensitive. I knew that he had just ORD from NS n had been answering the angry phone calls since we left. I could just take that he was just being annoyed by the callers n trying to do something to destress himself. However, he should know the limit of. I could laugh with, joke with if he never cross over the line. Actually I didnt take that seriously, just that I was a bit disappointed by his act...

Mission "ignoring" didnt last long. I planned to ignored him for a week. Let him die of guiltily *evil laughter*, yet SL just spoilt my plan this morning.

I was watching my Korean drama when SL whatsapp me. I replied. In the end, it was a group conversation with YT... T.T so no choice had to reply n forgive him n be nice again. Haiz there gone my chance of ignoring him...

Glad that he not my boyfriend. Having such insensitive boyfriend will kill. Girls, please dont find such dumb boyfriends in future ♥